Why Setting Boundaries Doesn’t Mean You’ve Stopped Loving Them
Sis, let’s talk about that tug-of-war between your heart and your peace. You know, that voice that says, “If I set this boundary, they’ll think I don’t care.” Or the guilt that creeps in when you finally start saying no to things that once drained you. Chile, let’s make this clear right now — love and boundaries are not enemies. In fact, they walk hand in hand. Boundaries Are an Extension of Love When you set a boundary, you’re not pushing people away — you’re inviting them to love you correctly. Real love thrives in clarity, not confusion. It flourishes when expectations are known, not guessed. Boundaries are your way of saying, “I want this relationship to last, but it can’t survive like this.” Love without boundaries is chaos. It’s like trying to pour water into a bucket full of holes — no matter how much you give, it’ll never be enough. You’re not wrong for protecting your heart, your time, or your energy. You’re simply honoring what God placed inside you to steward well. Y...